How to make a girl fall in love with you on the first date
Get her drunk? Brother, is that what you are thinking? You can think about it, but don’t do it.
The first date is really important. It is related to whether you will have a second, third or even fourth date.
So today’s four main points of dating, brothers must memorize them, from time, place to topic to nanny-level kissing tutorial, one date will make the girl obsessed with you, and she will not be lonely on Valentine’s Day from now on.
Without further ado, the first time and place to get on the car should be chosen in a large time, usually between three and seven hours.
When I was in my first love many years ago, I remember that we met at two or three in the afternoon and played until more than ten in the evening. I sent her back to the dormitory, and then she became my girlfriend inexplicably.
So generally speaking, I suggest that you meet in the afternoon, play until the evening and then send the girl home, because this time is long enough and there is more room for operation. Then understand this point.
Here is a long-term process recommended to brothers. In the afternoon, find a place with a good environment, such as a cafe, drink and chat, don’t order food, and change the venue when the time is almost up.
Order less dishes when eating, don’t eat too much, it’s easy to feel sleepy when you are full, and then change to drink something, which can be a bar, or it can be a transition to an unconventional project, such as visiting IKEA escape room, doing naughty things, etc., but don’t underestimate this dating process, there are many small details in it.
The first detail is to change the venue at least three times. The transition is directly related to the key point that girls feel that dating you is novel and interesting or boring. The number of special sessions will create a feeling that the dating time is short but the experience is rich for girls.
So if you take a girl to an ordinary shopping mall to watch a movie, don’t choose Starbucks in the mall for coffee, but search for local Internet celebrity stores, and then go to another place for dinner.
Avoid completing all dating projects in the same mall, which will cause aesthetic fatigue caused by similar decoration styles. Of course, the transition should not be too far, otherwise time will be wasted on the road.
Second, combine static and dynamic. Static refers to activities such as eating and watching movies, while dynamic refers to activities with a sense of common participation, such as mountain climbing, DIY escape room, etc. Compared with static, dynamic can better promote your relationship.
Deepen each other’s impression, just like when you were a child, you played with your friends for an afternoon. Will the relationship advance by leaps and bounds? When you parted, you were reluctant to leave and wanted to make an appointment for the next time.
And dynamic activities are simply the best choice for people who are not good at chatting. On the ground, you need to chat all the time and think about what to talk about. Of course, I don’t recommend watching movies. If you must watch it, remember to go to the video game arcade next to the cinema to play for a while, or go to scratch cards together, paint oil paintings, and leave some records to make the connection stronger.
Of course, such a full date arrangement is also based on the girl’s good condition. If the girl is not in good condition or is not satisfied with some arrangements, you need to adapt to the situation.
The most embarrassing scene I can think of for the second topic is that two people sit opposite each other, staring at each other, and can’t find a topic, and then open their mobile phones. Believe me, if you are not a person with great eloquence, then you must remember the following principle, that is, small talk is the main topic, and in-depth topics are supplemented.
Small talk means choosing topics such as eating, drinking, playing, clothing, food, housing and transportation. Not only do both parties have something to talk about, but the atmosphere will also be more relaxed and pleasant. When you are a little familiar with each other, you can go deep into the topic, and you can talk about consumption concepts, hobbies, vocational education, future plans and other topics.
Pay attention to the principle of talking about both parties, talking about yourself or talking about girls, and try to lead to the emotions of both sexes. Remember not to talk about national affairs, national rejuvenation, industry development and other areas that are out of your relationship. After all, you are here to pick up girls, not to brag, right?
Let me give you an example. The boy said, hey, this hot pot is good. The girl said: Oh, I don’t like hot pot very much. I think it’s too oily and spicy. The boy can answer, hey, it seems that we have to carry a double-flavor hot pot in the future, otherwise it will be difficult to add this midnight snack.
See, I am implanting future expectations, I am assuming that we are a couple, which is to talk about emotional topics. The girl replied: Hahaha, how can the midnight snack only be hot pot? Crayfish and beer, arrange it. Since the girl is so cooperative, the boy will take it, then prepare two more dice, and we will not go home until we are drunk tonight.
Do you think you can naturally discuss emotional topics through games?
If you still don’t know how to chat with girls after reading this, and don’t know what to talk about on a date, I have prepared a set here, which you can have with girls.
Of course, if your relationship has not reached this stage, and you don’t even have the basic hand holding and hugging, I have talked about it in my previous videos. You can go back and review this skill and keep it as a backup.
First of all, the first step is not to have bad breath. If you have eaten leeks, garlic, smoked, or burped, I beg you to shut up and don’t kiss. If you think this time is almost certain to be a kiss, you can carry a small bottle of mouthwash with you, and always keep a certain flavor of candy in your bag. Eat the same flavor before each kiss, so that he will remember your kiss when he smells this smell in the future.
The second step is that there are many ways to kiss, not just one way to go around the world. Whether it is a dragonfly touch or a French kiss depends on the current situation and the time you met on the street. I don’t recommend biting each other. The kind of kissing against the wall in idol dramas may knock your front teeth off. Remember to talk nonsense about kissing.
Be gentle at the beginning. When your mouth, teeth, and tongue are not united, you only need to send one person. Otherwise, the three of them will take care of their own things and give each other oral ulcers. How sad it will be for him to see your mouth hurt.
Then seeing this, you must say, oh, in fact, you will be able to do it if you have more friends.
Brother, I’m not hurting you, if you can play with so many friends, you won’t appear in front of my article.
And the teaching cost is too high. You can’t learn any of the ice stability, stacking stability or earlobe stability taught on the Internet. I will teach you a simple and rough method here, so that you can seduce her at zero cost.
The legs are weak and the speed is a bit fast. Please hold the handrail tightly and pay attention to your feet. First, gentle training, prepare a small jelly, put it in your mouth completely, and let the jelly roll around in your mouth, up and down, left and right. If the jelly is rotten, start again, which means you are not gentle enough, you are too wild.
Practice three times a day until the jelly is unscathed, then you can start the next step.
Second, strength training, you have eaten chicken feet, right? If you all use teeth, then you really missed a good opportunity to practice. From now on, when eating chicken feet, please use your tongue to debone it. I won’t talk about the back, you practice first.
The third practical training, if you have learned all the things mentioned above, you can find a beautiful woman to practice. Pay attention, don’t close your eyes before kissing, but look at his eyes first, then his mouth, and then close your eyes after kissing, otherwise, you will be very scary from the girl’s perspective.
When kissing at the same time, the two faces should be kept at a 45-degree angle, the chin should be slightly backward, and there should be a little strength to let her feel your boyfriend power. Believe me, at this time, fireworks are setting off in her head, so what should you do at this time?
Of course, use that thing to hang Abozi in her mouth. Pay attention, don’t be too deliberate, and don’t use too much force, just have a direction, don’t let the girl push you away abcd, I guess it’s right, it becomes a comedy, and the ending is very important.
Try to control the kiss within two minutes. If the other party has no intention of pushing you away, you should take the initiative to push her away, look into her eyes gently and with a smile, so that she can be unsatisfied.
Okay, brothers, it’s time to wake up. After this step, you need to send the girl back to where she should go, do a good job of aftermath, and pave the way for subsequent dating and establishing a relationship.
For example, keep in touch with the girl in moderation. After the date, don’t think that holding hands and hugging are successful, and start to send messages to the girl frantically.
Here we still need to be restrained. If you are busy during the day, chat at night. If you have social activities at night, greet during the day, but you can’t lose contact on any day.
For example, after the two of you get home, tell the goddess that there is delicious food, but you didn’t eat it today, and I will take you there in a few days, or there is an interesting place, but I didn’t have time to go today, and I will take you there when I have time.
First, show your attitude to the girl, prove your recognition of him and your expectation for the next date, and test the girl’s attitude for the second meeting. Second, avoid misunderstandings with the girl, making her feel that you have no plan, no strategy, and that you are not interested in him.
Of course, I recommend face-to-face invitations, because face-to-face invitations are easier to be accepted, and online invitations do not have the pressure of meeting in person. If you are in a position that fluctuates above and below the qualified line in the girl’s mind, there is a certain probability that the girl will refuse the invitation after returning home.
It should be noted here that the time and way of asking for the second invitation are also very particular. It should be at least one day apart, even a week apart is normal, to avoid exposing the sense of need.
When facing the specific invitation time, don’t keep asking if you are free the day after tomorrow? Are you free on Wednesday? I will take you to do something, especially if the girl says she has something to do the day after tomorrow, you don’t ask the day after tomorrow or a specific day, you can directly ask her, which day do you think is convenient?
If the girl still doesn’t express her opinion after asking this, then you should understand what she means. In general, don’t be eager to contact after the date, and don’t be licking when contacting. Always control the rhythm of subsequent pursuit, and don’t be too happy.
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