Beginners should be careful when picking up girls, and use routines to avoid these 4 types of women

1. Young girls
As long as they are younger than you, you think such girls are easier to flirt with. This is actually a big mistake. Women’s psychological age is generally much more mature than men of the same age, especially in emotional issues. So if you are a novice, don’t use those very low-level routines to chat with them, they have seen it when they were very young.
Nowadays, there are really many children who are in love in elementary school and kindergarten. Early love is really much earlier. In the past, falling in love in junior high school and high school was considered early love, but now when you browse Weibo, you are often shown affection by elementary school students. Some little boys’ means of flirting with girls are much better than many adult men.
So don’t take it for granted that young girls are easy to flirt with. The key is to understand the girl’s mind.
2. Girls with relatively low appearance
Many guys will practice with girls with relatively low appearance when they flirt with girls for the first time, thinking that this will increase their success rate. Then they flirt and flirt, and then nothing else happens…
First of all, girls are all the same. If you look at them differently with tinted glasses, then don’t blame the girls for dividing you into rich and poor. There is no difference between the two. Girls all have common characteristics, but at the same time they have their own personalities. If you really want to attract a girl, you should understand what type of boy she should like, instead of deciding whether it is suitable for you based on her appearance.
So, don’t take everything for granted. Under the premise of attraction, you should target the drug and analyze specific problems.
3. Girls who just broke up
Some boys may silently like a girl who has a boyfriend, and finally wait until she breaks up, so they are happy to think that their time has come. They will go up to comfort the girl when they get the chance and take the opportunity to confess. I really have nothing to say about this situation.
What I want to say is that some girls are more vulnerable when they break up, so if there is a member of the opposite sex around them who is particularly good to them when they break up, it is easy to have a good impression of him and then get together. But such feelings are very fragile. You are based on sympathy or you take advantage of her when she is most vulnerable. When she comes to her senses, she will consider breaking up with you.
A friend told me before that when he and she met, they were both heartbroken. The two met too late and had a lot of common topics to talk about. After talking for a long time, they found that their careers were very complementary, so they got together soon. As a result, after a period of time, the relationship became more and more awkward. The woman was neither cold nor hot, and the man felt boring.
So in the end, you can only do much better than blindly flirting with her if you grasp the girl’s mind.
4. Older single leftover women
You think that when women get older, they can’t wait to get married, so you take it for granted that they are easy to flirt with. This is a completely wrong idea. When a woman reaches this age, if she is anxious, it means that she really wants to get married, but if you are not qualified, she will still ignore you. Anyway, she has waited for so long and doesn’t care about one or two years. So in the end, you still have to understand the girl’s mind, otherwise you will only humiliate yourself if you rush forward.
Most of the single leftover women now have a very refined life, with a house, a car and financial ability. They can live well alone, but they find it troublesome to have one more person. So they will not find a boyfriend to marry casually because of the pressure of reality. What they need is a man who understands and loves her. If you can do it, you can try it.
There are also some single leftover women who have been hurt in love to a greater or lesser extent. They don’t show it, but it doesn’t mean they don’t have it. They are very disappointed in men, so it is easy to fail if you rush forward to flirt with her. Even if she is very polite to you and it is not very embarrassing to contact you, but after a long time, you will find that there is a distance between you that you can never walk away.
So you have to know a sentence: Do you think what you think is what you think?