The dating skills that the scumbag taught me | 🔥

Restaurant

1. Keep clothes neat and wash hair

2. Ask the other person about their taste, hobbies and taboos before the date, and make a restaurant reservation in advance

3. Hold the door for her when entering or exiting the door or elevator

4. The style of the restaurant for the first date should be similar to the impression you intend to leave on the other person. Elegant or artistic, high-end or cool

5. When she enters the door, stand up to welcome her and gently help her take off her coat or bag

6. Help move the chair and signal her to sit down

7. When chatting, stare at the other person to create an ambiguous atmosphere, and you can praise the other person one or two words, praise the details❕

“Your clothes today are very suitable for you, your temperament” “I feel you are good at matching” “Today’s makeup is very delicate” and so on

8. Take the initiative to let the other person order food, and take the initiative to hand over tissues when the time is right

9. Prepare water for the other person in the car in advance, and send the other person home after the date. You can get out of the car first to open the door for the other person and protect your head with your hands. (General)

10. After returning home, tell her “Today is a wonderful day, thank you for your company.”

Outing

1. When crossing the road, consciously walk on her left side. If there are cars or people, you can use your hands to protect her, but don’t deliberately have physical contact.

2. When shopping, ask the other party if they are tired and if they want to find a place to rest.

3. Take the initiative to help carry things.

Chatting

❌ Topics such as history, politics, football games, and games need to be clear that the other party is interested, otherwise don’t blindly use these as topics.

❌ Don’t check the household registration.

❌ Don’t ask if you are there, what you are doing, and have you eaten.

❌ Don’t continue to talk about topics that have differences.

❌ Topics that the other party does not respond to positively indicate that they are not interested.

The right way to open it⬇️

1. Find common ground between the two parties.

If both of you like fitness, you can talk about topics related to “fitness”.

2. Or just talk about things that the other party is interested in.

: If she likes to eat, talk about topics related to food.

3. When the other party talks about her own experience or her views on something, respond positively and empathize.

A few universal sentences⬇️

“I can understand”

“Yes, you are right”

“I think so too”

4. If the other person is a beautiful woman, it means that she is no longer interested in the same old external compliments. At this time, you should compliment her inner qualities, her work ability, and her wisdom. If you must compliment her external qualities, refer to the details mentioned above!

5. When the other person complains about her experience, you must empathize with her. Don’t reason with her. You should stand on the same front with her.

6. Don’t be a nitpicker. When the other person shows signs of arguing with you, you should take the initiative to surrender, otherwise it is very likely that the good image you have accumulated before will be wasted.