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The first action
Boldly approaching action, don’t think wrongly, this boldness allows you to dare to touch the most sensitive part of a woman’s heart, because girls are naturally delicate, sensitive and suspicious, and have their own privacy distance. Any man who can break through this distance will surpass 90% of his competitors. I know that many boys dare not do this, worried that girls will think they are a scumbag without measure. But I will tell you today that the more you think so, the more you will only be single.

As long as you can mobilize emotions, you can stimulate the deepest desires of women. This kind of deer-like electric shock feeling is something that no woman can withstand. So how to do it is actually very simple. For example, when going out with a girl, don’t be old-fashioned and timid. If you judge that the girl has a window, you can boldly make physical contact. Don’t stay far away from her when walking. For example, when crossing the road, don’t say anything, just hold her hand and walk across the zebra crossing.

The same is true when eating. If there is something on the corner of a girl’s mouth, gently wipe it with a tissue, and stare at her while wiping. Just these few seconds, just these few small actions, the girl will blush and her heart will beat. If you do this, the girl can start to build a good impression of you. If you want her to like you, then we can look at the second action, which is affirmation and appreciation.

The second action
Do you know what the biggest weakness of women is? It is the sense of value. So what women desire most is to be recognized. Don’t underestimate this appreciation. I have a friend who succeeded in getting hands with her boss by using this trick. He was able to win her over not because of good luck, nor because this woman was not materialistic. After all, this boss didn’t like my friend at all at the beginning, and he wanted to look at him with his nose every day. But my brother likes this style, and asked me for advice. I told him that everyone only sees her work results, which are bright and beautiful. If you can appreciate her value and praise her more? Then she will look at you with new eyes.

Later, my friend also relied on this method, and the boss began to notice him, and then slowly became familiar with him. Go shopping and eat together, as long as you can give the girl the most central, you don’t have to take the initiative at all. Women will show their charm in order to get your appreciation and praise. At that time, the female boss completed a project. In addition to verbal praise, this big brother also took her out for dinner, saying it was a reward. Do you know? After this series of actions, the girl will feel that you are completely different from other men, and thus have a sense of satisfaction of being recognized by you.

Summary of results
If you do the above, the girl will be moved by you, but if you want her to fall in love with you, you need to master more skills. Of course, I also know that you are excellent in themselves, but you just haven’t found the right way. Well, today’s sharing is here, and I will continue to update high-quality emotional content for you in the future. The earth does not explode, and the editor will not take a holiday. Thank you for watching.

How to make a girl fall in love with you on the first date

Get her drunk? Brother, is that what you are thinking? You can think about it, but don’t do it.

The first date is really important. It is related to whether you will have a second, third or even fourth date.

So today’s four main points of dating, brothers must memorize them, from time, place to topic to nanny-level kissing tutorial, one date will make the girl obsessed with you, and she will not be lonely on Valentine’s Day from now on.

Without further ado, the first time and place to get on the car should be chosen in a large time, usually between three and seven hours.

When I was in my first love many years ago, I remember that we met at two or three in the afternoon and played until more than ten in the evening. I sent her back to the dormitory, and then she became my girlfriend inexplicably.

So generally speaking, I suggest that you meet in the afternoon, play until the evening and then send the girl home, because this time is long enough and there is more room for operation. Then understand this point.

Here is a long-term process recommended to brothers. In the afternoon, find a place with a good environment, such as a cafe, drink and chat, don’t order food, and change the venue when the time is almost up.

Order less dishes when eating, don’t eat too much, it’s easy to feel sleepy when you are full, and then change to drink something, which can be a bar, or it can be a transition to an unconventional project, such as visiting IKEA escape room, doing naughty things, etc., but don’t underestimate this dating process, there are many small details in it.

The first detail is to change the venue at least three times. The transition is directly related to the key point that girls feel that dating you is novel and interesting or boring. The number of special sessions will create a feeling that the dating time is short but the experience is rich for girls.

So if you take a girl to an ordinary shopping mall to watch a movie, don’t choose Starbucks in the mall for coffee, but search for local Internet celebrity stores, and then go to another place for dinner.

Avoid completing all dating projects in the same mall, which will cause aesthetic fatigue caused by similar decoration styles. Of course, the transition should not be too far, otherwise time will be wasted on the road.

Second, combine static and dynamic. Static refers to activities such as eating and watching movies, while dynamic refers to activities with a sense of common participation, such as mountain climbing, DIY escape room, etc. Compared with static, dynamic can better promote your relationship.

Deepen each other’s impression, just like when you were a child, you played with your friends for an afternoon. Will the relationship advance by leaps and bounds? When you parted, you were reluctant to leave and wanted to make an appointment for the next time.

And dynamic activities are simply the best choice for people who are not good at chatting. On the ground, you need to chat all the time and think about what to talk about. Of course, I don’t recommend watching movies. If you must watch it, remember to go to the video game arcade next to the cinema to play for a while, or go to scratch cards together, paint oil paintings, and leave some records to make the connection stronger.

Of course, such a full date arrangement is also based on the girl’s good condition. If the girl is not in good condition or is not satisfied with some arrangements, you need to adapt to the situation.

The most embarrassing scene I can think of for the second topic is that two people sit opposite each other, staring at each other, and can’t find a topic, and then open their mobile phones. Believe me, if you are not a person with great eloquence, then you must remember the following principle, that is, small talk is the main topic, and in-depth topics are supplemented.

Small talk means choosing topics such as eating, drinking, playing, clothing, food, housing and transportation. Not only do both parties have something to talk about, but the atmosphere will also be more relaxed and pleasant. When you are a little familiar with each other, you can go deep into the topic, and you can talk about consumption concepts, hobbies, vocational education, future plans and other topics.

Pay attention to the principle of talking about both parties, talking about yourself or talking about girls, and try to lead to the emotions of both sexes. Remember not to talk about national affairs, national rejuvenation, industry development and other areas that are out of your relationship. After all, you are here to pick up girls, not to brag, right?

Let me give you an example. The boy said, hey, this hot pot is good. The girl said: Oh, I don’t like hot pot very much. I think it’s too oily and spicy. The boy can answer, hey, it seems that we have to carry a double-flavor hot pot in the future, otherwise it will be difficult to add this midnight snack.

See, I am implanting future expectations, I am assuming that we are a couple, which is to talk about emotional topics. The girl replied: Hahaha, how can the midnight snack only be hot pot? Crayfish and beer, arrange it. Since the girl is so cooperative, the boy will take it, then prepare two more dice, and we will not go home until we are drunk tonight.

Do you think you can naturally discuss emotional topics through games?

If you still don’t know how to chat with girls after reading this, and don’t know what to talk about on a date, I have prepared a set here, which you can have with girls.

Of course, if your relationship has not reached this stage, and you don’t even have the basic hand holding and hugging, I have talked about it in my previous videos. You can go back and review this skill and keep it as a backup.

First of all, the first step is not to have bad breath. If you have eaten leeks, garlic, smoked, or burped, I beg you to shut up and don’t kiss. If you think this time is almost certain to be a kiss, you can carry a small bottle of mouthwash with you, and always keep a certain flavor of candy in your bag. Eat the same flavor before each kiss, so that he will remember your kiss when he smells this smell in the future.

The second step is that there are many ways to kiss, not just one way to go around the world. Whether it is a dragonfly touch or a French kiss depends on the current situation and the time you met on the street. I don’t recommend biting each other. The kind of kissing against the wall in idol dramas may knock your front teeth off. Remember to talk nonsense about kissing.

Be gentle at the beginning. When your mouth, teeth, and tongue are not united, you only need to send one person. Otherwise, the three of them will take care of their own things and give each other oral ulcers. How sad it will be for him to see your mouth hurt.

Then seeing this, you must say, oh, in fact, you will be able to do it if you have more friends.

Brother, I’m not hurting you, if you can play with so many friends, you won’t appear in front of my article.

And the teaching cost is too high. You can’t learn any of the ice stability, stacking stability or earlobe stability taught on the Internet. I will teach you a simple and rough method here, so that you can seduce her at zero cost.

The legs are weak and the speed is a bit fast. Please hold the handrail tightly and pay attention to your feet. First, gentle training, prepare a small jelly, put it in your mouth completely, and let the jelly roll around in your mouth, up and down, left and right. If the jelly is rotten, start again, which means you are not gentle enough, you are too wild.

Practice three times a day until the jelly is unscathed, then you can start the next step.

Second, strength training, you have eaten chicken feet, right? If you all use teeth, then you really missed a good opportunity to practice. From now on, when eating chicken feet, please use your tongue to debone it. I won’t talk about the back, you practice first.

The third practical training, if you have learned all the things mentioned above, you can find a beautiful woman to practice. Pay attention, don’t close your eyes before kissing, but look at his eyes first, then his mouth, and then close your eyes after kissing, otherwise, you will be very scary from the girl’s perspective.

When kissing at the same time, the two faces should be kept at a 45-degree angle, the chin should be slightly backward, and there should be a little strength to let her feel your boyfriend power. Believe me, at this time, fireworks are setting off in her head, so what should you do at this time?

Of course, use that thing to hang Abozi in her mouth. Pay attention, don’t be too deliberate, and don’t use too much force, just have a direction, don’t let the girl push you away abcd, I guess it’s right, it becomes a comedy, and the ending is very important.

Try to control the kiss within two minutes. If the other party has no intention of pushing you away, you should take the initiative to push her away, look into her eyes gently and with a smile, so that she can be unsatisfied.

Okay, brothers, it’s time to wake up. After this step, you need to send the girl back to where she should go, do a good job of aftermath, and pave the way for subsequent dating and establishing a relationship.

For example, keep in touch with the girl in moderation. After the date, don’t think that holding hands and hugging are successful, and start to send messages to the girl frantically.

Here we still need to be restrained. If you are busy during the day, chat at night. If you have social activities at night, greet during the day, but you can’t lose contact on any day.

For example, after the two of you get home, tell the goddess that there is delicious food, but you didn’t eat it today, and I will take you there in a few days, or there is an interesting place, but I didn’t have time to go today, and I will take you there when I have time.

First, show your attitude to the girl, prove your recognition of him and your expectation for the next date, and test the girl’s attitude for the second meeting. Second, avoid misunderstandings with the girl, making her feel that you have no plan, no strategy, and that you are not interested in him.

Of course, I recommend face-to-face invitations, because face-to-face invitations are easier to be accepted, and online invitations do not have the pressure of meeting in person. If you are in a position that fluctuates above and below the qualified line in the girl’s mind, there is a certain probability that the girl will refuse the invitation after returning home.

It should be noted here that the time and way of asking for the second invitation are also very particular. It should be at least one day apart, even a week apart is normal, to avoid exposing the sense of need.

When facing the specific invitation time, don’t keep asking if you are free the day after tomorrow? Are you free on Wednesday? I will take you to do something, especially if the girl says she has something to do the day after tomorrow, you don’t ask the day after tomorrow or a specific day, you can directly ask her, which day do you think is convenient?

If the girl still doesn’t express her opinion after asking this, then you should understand what she means. In general, don’t be eager to contact after the date, and don’t be licking when contacting. Always control the rhythm of subsequent pursuit, and don’t be too happy.

1. Pay attention to details
Most girls are detail-oriented. You have to work harder on details to capture her heart step by step.
Carry tissues with you on daily dates
Imagine this scenario: the girl’s bag is very delicate and mini and can’t hold tissues, but when she is drinking a drink, she spills water on her body. At this time, you take out a pack of tissues to wipe the girl, which can effectively relieve the embarrassment and make the girl feel that you are so careful.
Don’t smoke in public and around girls
If you are a smoker, please avoid smoking around girls. Non-smoking girls will resist the smell of cigarettes. Not smoking around girls and in public can show that you are a person who considers others and is not selfish.
When tall boys talk to short girls, boys will bend down to listen to the girls
If you are a tall boy, don’t let girls tiptoe or speak to you loudly, which is not decent for girls. You can bend over to listen to girls, so that girls can think that you are a proactive person who values ​​her words.
Don’t underestimate these details, girls are very fond of this, and it will make them feel more loved by boys.
2. Take good care of her in various occasions
If a girl is wearing a skirt, you can take the initiative to stand behind her when taking the escalator
This little move can prevent girls wearing skirts from exposing themselves, and can also make girls feel safe.
Always let girls walk on the inside of the road
At the right time, go around from behind the girl to the left side close to the road. You don’t need to say much, her favorability towards you will increase proportionally.
When a girl is carrying something in her hand, don’t ask if you need help?
Just bring it over directly, so that the girl doesn’t have to pretend to be polite and can say “thank you” to you frankly.
Take good care of her in various occasions
Before buying water, ask the girl if she can drink cold water, and loosen the bottle cap by the way, and hand it over naturally
Although the girl is not unable to open it, someone caring and caring will make the girl feel that she is always taken care of, and increase the sense of trust infinitely.
These behaviors fully reflect your respect and care for her, making her feel that you are polite, upright and well-educated. Slowly, in time, very fragile and sensitive girls can also let down their guard against you.
3. Behave like a gentleman
Have you often heard girls say “Look at his hand, I love it!” “My brother is so gentleman!!”
What do girls mean?
It’s very simple, be polite to the waiter
If a boy speaks loudly to the waiter or even makes things difficult for the waiter, it will make the girl feel embarrassed and down. The polite attitude towards the waiter can expose your upbringing and quality. Boys who are polite to the waiter and often say thank you must be very good in the eyes of girls. Who doesn’t like a handsome boy?
When taking the elevator, you will hold the elevator door with your hand to wait for others to come in. This is a good time to show whether the boy is kind and considerate of others. Small actions can show the boy’s politeness.
When the crowd is crowded, quietly protect the girl behind the hand but don’t touch her
Let others not touch her and protect her at all times. This is the typical “gentleman’s hand” that girls like, which will directly make her think that your boyfriend is full of power.
Don’t order your favorite dishes at a restaurant
You can recommend dishes that you think are good to girls, and then let the girls make decisions based on their own preferences. The most important thing is to be gentle and gentlemanly.
Be gentle and gentlemanly without being deliberate, and let the girls feel natural and comfortable, and show some personal charm inadvertently.
Fourth, strong action
Sometimes actions are more direct and more effective than words.
This is mainly reflected in asking less and doing more. For example, when dating, instead of asking girls where they want to go, it is better to say directly:
“Didn’t you say you wanted to eat hot pot last time? Let’s go to eat hot pot?”
Plan the itinerary for the day in advance
Take her directly when the time comes. She doesn’t need to consider the itinerary and can follow you easily. It is guaranteed that she will feel that your boyfriend power is MAX, and you have the flavor of a domineering president!
Send the girl home
Generally, the date will end at night. Whether it is convenient or not, sending the girl home always feels good to be protected, and it can also make her think that she is cared about by you. Even if you take the bus home together, you will feel like you are back to the time when you were in school and had an innocent love.
Reservation and shyness will quickly heat up the relationship between two people.
5. Pay attention to personal hygiene
Both boys and girls hope that the date is clean and fresh.
Even if you don’t know how to dress, just clean and tidy clothes without odor; even if you don’t know how to dress up, just cut your nails and comb your hair. Such a clean and refreshing image can add a lot of points to you when you meet.
The above-mentioned behaviors that add points are actually respect and consideration for girls, making her feel comfortable with you. If you get along with girls more like this, won’t you get full points?